Sunday, May 17, 2009

Letting Go




Sometimes, you get so wrapped up in the day to day, that you believe in your mind that THIS is your comfort zone. Until, it takes a toll on you. At which point, you must be strong enough to say no and step outside of this zone. Once you do so, you MUST let go of that idea that you have left your comfort zone. Comfort in an illusion that you create. Create a NEW comfort zone leaving behind the negative or ugly that caused the previous zone to become, well..uncomfortable. But take with you the good.



Letting go can be a hard thing to do, but it is not impossible. The only thing to fear, is fear itself. Open your eyes, mind, spirit and soul to the wonders and opportunities that are still out there waiting for you to discover them.



I have been having...not a hard time, but a slower than expected time....letting go of the past 6 years of my life. I learned A LOT from two major sources during that time frame. The time is now to click on refresh and start again. It IS actually ok to refresh over and over and over.



We make choices during our lives...sometimes, the decisions we make end up being..eh, not so much wrong as not how we expected that choice to turn out. So, what you do is not wallow in despair of the decision, but turn around to your chalkboard and "chalk it up to experience" and move on.



Letting go doesn't mean forgetting. It means moving on.

1 comment:

Anna said...

you had better not be letting go of me even though i have been slack in the communications department. i love you!